This
is going to get weird. Just sayin'.
Whenever
I am at work and my boss offers me extra work, I always say yes.
Whenever the Universe presents an opportunity which will better my
understanding of myself, I always say yes. (Always and never don't happen so you can see where this is going.) Understanding the dynamics
of Quantum Physics dictates the more of a certain energy I put out,
the more I get back. And... Quantum Physics dictates the more I say
yes to certain things, the more those things will be offered.
I
told you this would get weird.
When
I was in high school, I wanted to be an architect. I loved the idea
of designing something people would enjoy for years. Naturally, I
took drafting and architectural courses through high school to the
point where I thought I may like to make it my career. Circumstances
weren't in my favour. The teacher of all the architectural classes
had an issue with me which I never quite understood until later in
life.
As
it turns out, he and my father didn't get on well during their
days in high school and it managed to seep through to me. Two
things... My father had nothing to do with the issue. It wasn't his
fault an old acquaintance was an ass and I never once blamed him for
the troubles. Not once. Second, that a teacher would let his own past
affect his judgment when the children land in his class says much
more about the teacher than it does about me or my father.
My
grades suffered.
Unfortunately,
I was a ball of outside-influenced silly putty during those years and, rather than stand
up for myself, I switched majors when I landed in university;
accounting and computer science. I convinced myself my propensity for
solving equations was a better career choice. I was wrong. I had been
influenced by an outside source.
Making
decisions is difficult enough at times without outside influence.
It's difficult to clear the noise of others opinions and really get
down to the nuts and bolts of what I want. Trying to listen to my gut when my head is screaming every other person's belief is akin
to trying to turn a boat around in a hurricane. The outside influence
keeps getting in the way of what I want to do.
Plenty
of people use alternative methods for making decisions. Many of those
include Tarot cards, horoscopes, ring divining, flipping coins,
tossing bones, divining rods, sniffing the wind, etc. Somehow they
feel they have some influence over the outcome so the end result must
be what they wish. There is some truth to it. For example, if
someone is flipping a coin and they are thinking “heads” all of
the time, more often than not, heads will come up. (Yes... tests have
been done. Sheesh!) The scientific explanation is, if one is thinking
“heads” the muscle reaction when flipping the coin and the
catching motion will result in heads more often. The reason is, the
brain is a super computer and can detect when a coin is ready to turn
heads and will try to influence the outcome. Literally, the brain
“sees” the coin flipping and can detect heads or tails.
Yup...
it works that fast.
However,
it isn't a perfect art.
There
is something called kinetic decision making and it has to do with
muscle reaction. Basically, if you feel “yes”, your
muscles react in a certain way and if you feel “no”, they
react in another. “Yes” is always the stronger of the two. In
order to make a decision, one need only ask a yes/ no question and
test for muscle strength. As fate would have it (do fate and decision
making marry up?) I am one of those rare people with the ability to
test myself. I have only met one other person who had the ability to
self test kinetically. I've never tried to test another person. It
might be a great laugh to try some day.
This
just got weirder, didn't it. ~laugh~
Some
decisions, though, are just a gut reaction to whatever the question
may be. There's no need for tests or other input. There's no need for
external advice or ruminating over a checkered past to see if it fits
a pattern. It just feels right. There are other factors, of
course. I have one particular long term goal which determines whether
I say yes to my boss or not. I have another life goal which
determines whether I say yes to certain activities.
I
received an offer today to participate in a program this Spring. It
doesn't work for me. Knowing the short term goals and the effect on
long term results, I had to beg off for the Spring. I respect the person who offered and have trusted them for years so saying no was difficult. And the “yes”
was still in my mind. As it turns out, there is another program in
the Fall. That timing is much better for achieving both goals.
Naturally,
I said yes to the Fall program. No conditions. No excuses. No reasoning out of it. I am
trusting the person who offered to poke me in the ribs to remind me though. I have a tendency to be a seat of the pants kind
of guy and planning is... umm... not my strong suit. (That's an
effing understatement.)
For shits and giggles, I did muscle testing when I got home from work. "No" to Spring. "Yes" to Fall. Trust the gut, Dude.
My
point is this... know yourself, know your goals, know if you
really want those goals, be open to shifts in course along the
trail and say yes to anything that isn't harmful to you, others or
your goal. The power of “yes” is agreeing to the right things which attracts more of those things into your life.
Of course, if
you're still having difficulty making a decision, sniffing the wind seems to help.
Namaste
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